common question.

i was thinking about something my psychologist asked me yesterday (i feel like i've been asked this a million times before)- "aren't you MAD at the driver of your car accident?".. i looked at her and didn't hesitate when i said, "no." then she said, "well he was the reason why you almost died and have so much difficulties now doing things." so i answered, "being mad at him won't get me anything or benefit me in any way." then my psychologist said, "yeah.. you're right." i can honestly admit that i've never really been angry to the point of hate at the driver of my car accident. i've always had the understanding that shit happens and in order for a problem to really happen- there's always gotta be more than one cause- i take responsibility in the accident. some cocky naive sisters may say, "well YOU got in the car." true but were YOU there? did you have to experience everything leading up to my decision to get in the car? or after? no. so mind your business. sticking up for your brother won't get you anything, so don't even waste your time. go act like your friend's hero somewhere else. it just shows that you're insecure about your friendship with her. i'm pretty sure that's why you're even in our business. trying to gain points with your friend, his wife. work on yourself and mind your business. you need to rethink your friendship if you need to harass women not to be friends with her husband. it's not your problem OR business. being mad at the man who nearly killed me and is the cause of my disability won't get me anywhere, it won't help me in any way. so save your bible verses about "forgiveness". i'm aware of my situation.